My Gender Labels
Captions are below the flags!
Trans: A gender that does not line up with one's assigned gender at birth. I am a transgender man, though I'm considering calling myself transsexual.
Transmaverine: A trans experience aligned with maverinity, a quality that is not masculine, feminine, neutral, or null but is still strongly gendered and autonomous. My trans experience feels maverine in nature, not tied to any existing gender quality.
Multigender: Having more than one gender or a gender made up of different parts. Being bigender and demigender makes me multigender.
Bigender: Having two distinct genders. I am both male and asteresque (an aporagender.)
Nonbinary: Any gender that is not entirely male or female. I am a nonbinary man, my bigender identity makes me nonbinary, and asteresque is a nonbinary gender.
Nonbinary man: A gender that is male in a nonbinary way. My malehood is experienced through a nonbinary lens.
Demiboy: Being partially male. My neutral gender creates a partial male experience, though I call it "demiguy."
Neutrois: (Not used, but still included in my videos and essays.) A gender that is not male or female, but neutral or null. For me, it means neutral.
Asteresque: An unaligned neutral gender that is similar to neutrois but is not genderless nor ambiguous. This term is slowly replacing neutrois for me but I'm not entirely out yet.
Aporagender: A gender unrelated to the binary or anything in between but with a strong gendered feeling. My astereseque identity is an aporagender.
Abinary: Genders that are not at all related to the binary of male and female. One of my genders - asteresque - is abinary.
Nonbinarine: A gender quality related to the nonbinary gender experience. I use this specifically to describe my sex.
Note: The trans, aporagender, and nonbinarine flags used here were created by Tumblr user ryanyflags. The multigender flag is by isobug.
Term and Pronoun Boundaries
I do not use terms like AFAB, AMAB, TME, or TMA for myself and prefer not to be asked where I fall under these categories.
Do not call me transmasculine, even though I am a transgender man. I am transmaverine.
Do not assume my alignment. I am not masculine-aligned or neutral-aligned. I am also not male-aligned or neutrois-aligned. I do not have an alignment.
My sex is of a nonbinary quality (nonbinarine.) I am not altersex. My sex is not male or female.
I prefer male-related terminology such as man, guy, sir, etc. Do not attempt to degender me by using neutral language.
I'm neutral on the term "enby" for myself, but I do like enban if you're going to use a nonbinary referential term.
I prefer ey/em/eirs pronouns in online spaces, and he/him/his pronouns in person. I'm tentatively considering ae/aer/aers pronouns, so feel free to try them out on me! I also enjoy e/em/eirs pronouns or any spelling variation of ey/em.
Preferred Names
Stormy (highest priority), Aster, Atlas, Alex (low priority)